Introduction
Even the best-behaved children can be difficult and challenging at times. Teens are often moody and argumentative. But if your child or teen has a persistent pattern of tantrums, arguing and angry or disruptive behaviors toward you and other authority figures, he or she may have oppositional defiant disorder (ODD). Emotionally draining for the parents and distressing for the child, oppositional defiant disorder can add fuel to what may already be a turbulent and stressful family life.
You may walk on eggshells around your child with oppositional defiant disorder, not knowing what may trigger a tantrum or argument. While this is one of the most difficult of behavioral disorders, setting firm boundaries with consistent consequences plus a commitment to improving your relationship with your child can help your family overcome the dominating grip that oppositional defiant disorder may have on your household.
The foundation of treatment of ODD is behavioral management. Parents don’t have to go it alone in trying to manage a child with oppositional defiant disorder. Doctors, counselors and child development experts can help you learn specific parenting strategies and use proven techniques to help build a foundation of trust between you and your child and improve the underlying basis for these disruptive behaviors.
Signs and symptoms
It may be tough at times to recognize the difference between a strong-willed or emotional child and a child who has oppositional defiant disorder. And certainly there is a range between the normal independence-seeking behavior of children and oppositional defiant disorder. It’s normal for children to exhibit oppositional behaviors at certain stages of their development. However, if your child’s oppositional behaviors are persistent, have lasted at least six months and are clearly disruptive to the family and home or school environment, the issue may be oppositional defiant disorder.
The following are behaviors associated with ODD:
- Negativity
- Defiance
- Disobedience
- Hostility directed toward authority figures
These behaviors might cause your child to regularly and consistently show these symptoms:
- Frequent temper tantrums
- Argumentativeness with adults
- Refusal to comply with adult requests or rules
- Deliberate annoyance of other people
- Blaming others for mistakes or misbehavior
- Acting touchy and easily annoyed
- Anger and resentment
- Spiteful or vindictive behavior
- Aggressiveness toward peers
Oppositional defiant disorder often occurs along with other behavioral or mental health problems such as attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), anxiety or depression. The symptoms of ODD may be hard to distinguish from those of other behavioral or mental health problems.
Causes
There’s no clear cause underpinning oppositional defiant disorder. Contributing causes may include:
- The child’s inherent temperament
- The family’s response to the child’s style
- A genetic component that when coupled with certain environmental conditions, such as lack of supervision, poor quality daycare or family instability, increases the risk for ODD
- A biochemical or neurological factor
- The child’s perception that he or she isn’t getting enough of the parent’s time and attention
Risk factors
A number of factors play a role in the development of oppositional defiant disorder. ODD is a complex problem involving a variety of influences, circumstances and genetic components. No single factor alone causes ODD; however, the more risk factors a child has for ODD, the greater the risk for developing the disorder. Possible risk factors include:
- Having a parent with a mood or substance abuse disorder
- Being abused or neglected
- Harsh or inconsistent discipline
- Lack of supervision
- Poor relationship with one or both parents
- Family instability such as multiple moves, changing schools frequently
- Parents with a history of ADHD, oppositional defiant disorder or conduct problems
- Financial problems in the family
- Peer rejection
- Exposure to violence
- Frequent changes in daycare providers
- Parents who have a troubled marriage or are divorced
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